Belonging is very important in a well-functioning team. If you want the best performance and contribution, your team need to feel they belong. This sense of belonging goes beyond inclusion or acceptance. Moreover, it is a feeling of being an integral part of what’s going on.
Belonging is a natural and fundamental desire that all humans have in common. From Psychology Today: “In 1995, Baumeister and Leary’s landmark paper, ‘The need to belong: Desire for interpersonal attachments as a fundamental human motivation,’ firmly identified belonging as a universal human need, ingrained in our motivation as a species and stemming deeply from our ancestral roots.”
How do create belonging at work
It begins with a shift in perspective. Start by recognising that each of your team members wants to belong. Regardless of their personality traits. Whether they are outgoing or more reserved, their desire to connect and feel valued is similar.
Work on ways to create an environment where you value everyone’s contributions, and ideas. Additionally there needs to be equal respect. Also encourage open communication and active listening. You need to ensure that each team member’s voice is heard and considered (sounds easy? Test it in your next team meeting). By fostering an atmosphere of safety, you provide a space for all to be themselves. It’s crucial there is no fear of judgment.
Building trust is another key aspect of cultivating belonging. Because trust serves as a foundation for strong relationships and team cohesion. Lead by example, demonstrating trustworthiness, reliability, and integrity in your actions and decisions. Moreover, encourage collaboration and promote a sense of shared responsibility. Your team members all play a role in the team’s success. Create opportunities for team bonding and social interaction. Team-building activities help build connections, and strengthen the sense of belonging. Celebrate diversity and encourage individuals to embrace their uniqueness. When team members feel valued for their individuality, it creates a bigger sense of team.
In any case acknowledge and appreciate the accomplishments and contributions of your team members. Provide constructive feedback, recognition, and opportunities for growth and development. Remember that this takes is time. You need to commit to your 1:1s and stick with them. Don’t make them a nice to have, but must have meetings. They need to be a priority.
And don’t overcomplicate things.
It’s a constant process
Remember that cultivating team belonging is an ongoing process. Always check and reassess the team dynamics. Also encourage regular team check-ins, where you discuss concerns and ideas. Adapt your leadership style and make sure everyone feels seen, heard, and valued. Don’t forget, in return this will help create better results and have a positive impact on your career.
Leadership for team belonging is about creating an inclusive environment. Recognise the universal human need for belonging. And then put in place strategies to promote it. And with this your team can perform at full potential. leading to enhanced performance, collaboration, and success.

